- "You didn't know people's reactions before you came out so it took courage to do it anyway."
- That was part of the reason I didn't just do the post on Facebook, I came out to a select few people because they were open minded. True being open minded doesn't necessarily mean you accept everything but I had a good feeling. So once I had a support group that I knew I could fall back on if anything went wrong it was not nearly as daunting a task as it initially seemed to be.
- "You aren't afraid to be who you are"
- I decided that I had spent enough time slowing killing myself with my negative and judgmental thoughts. No fate that others dish out could have been worse then what I was consistently putting myself through.
- "You are so open about all of it."
- It is a part of me and my history. Not all trans people necessarily agree to this but in my opinion if I wasn't open about it then I would feel that I was ashamed of my reality & circumstances and that is in no way the case. Biologically I was born a little girl who grew up to become the man he always knew himself to be. If people in the trans community are not open and/or okay with who they are then that sends a message to anyone thinking about coming out to just keep it inside because it is better then admitting it and hating yourself.
Other than that it started becoming relatively the same sorts of ideas and comments. If I inspire people that is fantastic, but I really don't see myself as any more brave/courageous than the next Tom, Dick, or Harry.
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